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Article: Thoughts Create Your Environment! |
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I recently received a call
from a good friend of mine who shared with me that she
was hoping her 18 year old son, a recent high school
graduate would take more responsibility for his future.
Then she shared with me that she had watched the movie "The
Secret" about 12 times before she came to this realization.
She said it suddenly dawned on her as she looked around her
home that all the pictures of her son were of him at the age
of around 5-7 years old. She said it was so revealing
to her that if she was focusing her attention on the fact
that he was a child, she would be getting behaviors from him
of dependence and lack of taking responsibility. Upon
her realization she told me she was going to go take
pictures of her grown up son and put them around her home.
Before she could, he called to say he was applying for a
job. How quickly we change our own perspective, is how
fast results can come to us in our relationships.
Is it true that what we are experiencing in our life and our
environment is based on what we expect and believe about
ourselves. If you question this, then observe what you
are thinking about yourself and what you are getting in your
relationships. When you are experiencing a
negative reaction from others in your environment, it is
important to ask yourself what you were thinking that might
have attracted the experience. If you believe that
others will not trust you, or that you are not deserving of
their friendship or love, then you may have a partner who
reinforces your belief about yourself by name calling or
covert behavior resulting in feelings of betrayal or lack of
support.
As soon as you can go within and picture yourself receiving
love, kind words from others, compliments, or just a feeling
of connectedness and joy; then you will start to see that
show up in your relationships and experiences.
If you want to have good friends and supportive
relationships then you might start with pictures of friends
in your environment. Surrounding yourself with
pictures of fun and supportive relationships will help you
feel good about yourself. Don't forget to include
pictures of the family pet, who often becomes as loved as
other friends or family members. Pictures that help
you feel good, contribute to your successful manifesting of
your dreams.
If you want to feel peace, you probably would not select a
Salvador Dali painting with high energy and lots of drama.
You would want to avoid a lot of red and diagonal lines in
your environment. Diagonal lines have high energy and
are good for family rooms or areas of entertaining where you
would like to liven up a party. Cool colors such
as greens and blues and beige tones help to bring about a
feeling of calmness and peace. If arguing occurs a lot
in a certain area, look at the colors in that area, and the
overall direction of the lines of the room. Are the
lines horizontal creating relaxation, are they vertical
causing a feeling of formality, or are they diagonal
contributing to high energy of the room?
I spoke with one woman who shared that when she drove the
freeway she would always see vehicles that looked like
tanks. She found it really bothered her to see this
new design in cars. When she asked herself why this
bothered her so much, she realized that it was because these
cars reminded her of war and said she was very opposed to
war. When she changed her perspective about the cars
and looked at them as being safe and secure for family
travel, then she found that it no longer created tension
within her and she began to see less and less of the
vehicles in her travels.
Great emotions will draw things to you. If you are
very resistant about something, constantly trying to avoid
it, then you hold yourself in an energy that can actually
attract it from your resistance and fear of it occurring.
The focus upon something for a period of time actually tends
to bring a higher potential of that into your experience.
What we focus on continues to show up for us, whether it is
something we want or something we are pushing away.
The fact that you focus on it, brings it to your awareness
and you get more of what you are thinking about and talking
about.
I had a woman tell me that she realized that she was
expecting her daughter to make mistakes and disappoint her,
based on previous actions, and that was exactly what she had
been getting in her relationship with her daughter.
She realized that all she really needed to do was to change
her perspective and get clear about the behavior and
relationship she wanted to experience with her daughter!
This could not be a better month to let go of old habits,
old beliefs, and move forward creating the life you love.
Until next month! Wishing you more love, joy,
adventure, fun, good health, happiness and success!
Stay tuned for next month's issue where I reveal the tips on
totally transforming a home. Right now I am working on
a total remodel for my mother's new townhouse.
Watch for pictures in my next month's newsletters.
Pat
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The next change
in energy occurs
April 5, 2007 through May 5,2007...
In the Center
of all buildings this period is the energy that has the
potential
to increase what it is with even stronger than the energy of
March.
Since the
2007 yearly visiting energy is separation and/or sickness
in the center
of all buildings, we will see more "letting go" during
April
with the monthly
energy increasing what it is with. This area in
the center quadrant has the
strongest potential for
all of the occupants in the building because it is in the
center or "heart" of the building. This energy supports those who are planning
to move, change jobs,
or make transitions. This energy may also bring
health challenges,
or over spending.
Place 50-100
lbs. of Metal
in the center of
your building for the monthly energy in addition to what
ever your
buildings metal requirement may be, and then avoid the
use of fire
in
this area to maintain health and wealth.
Use this energy this month to
"let go"
of any activity,
relationship, or possession that no longer serves you.
Holding
onto energy that brings you little joy limits your
spiritual growth. This "letting go"
energy includes
letting go of having to be right, and holding onto
judgments. This year
is becoming one of the most
spiritually aware years in the history of the world.
2008
plans to be a year of more respect, love, and
acceptance after this 2007 year of
"letting go" has helped
to transform our world and everyone in it.
In the South
be sure to put 50 lbs of metal here if this is your front door,
bedroom, office, or area where you spend a great deal of time.
This month use this energy for the potential of delays to relax and meditate.
Take advantage of the slower paced energy happening this month in this
area to help you become clear
on your desires. Don't force things
to happen, have patience. Avoid all fire, water, or earth elements
in this area during this energy period. If these elements are not possible
to avoid such as a kitchen cook top with the fire element, or a bathroom shower, then increase the metal remedy. With the
correct amount of metal it is possible to move forward with ease!
In the Southwest the energy this period is
whining and complaining. Fire helps
reduce this energy. Remember that fire is not recommended when
your buildings energy requires metal in the southwest.
In the West - is a greater potential to bring money
for those occupying this quadrant
this period. No
remedy is needed other than what is required for your
personal building. Earth supports this energy
this month in the West and can be used if you have not been
instructed to use metal here.
In the Northwest - Outstanding energy!!! You
may enjoy receiving unexpected money, good
health, more visitors, and/or an increase in people
coming to your business,
or
home especially if this is a doorway used
often, or place of
entertaining. Sometimes this indicates additions
to the family, since it is an
expansion energy. Add fire to increase
this great energy,
unless
you have
been instructed to use metal in the Northwest quadrant of your
building. The
natural flow of good energy coming in the Northwest during this
period is evident
with or without the fire.
In the North is the
energy having the potential for creativity, love, travel,
great for academics, learning, creative writing, speaking.
With this energy
you are sure to be inspired to decorate your home or do
participate in some
creative activity, or even find a new love relationship this
period.
You may also find yourself making travel plans for a great
get away, or enjoy lots of small trips or even more out of the office activity
this month for
realtors or people who work in the field. No
remedy is needed. If you would like to increase this creative energy
and the potential for a new love relationship then add water to this
quadrant. Or place fire here to increase the potential
for wealth. Avoid water or fire if you have been
instructed to use metal here in the North in your building.
In
the Northeast enjoy power and authority this
month! If the Northeast is an area
where you spend
lots of time, it will be an especially great period for you. This
energy
is great for business, calls are returned easily, if this is your office
or
entrance to your business then it's even better! Get clear
on what you want and go for it this month
if this is an
entrance, office, or sleep area. This energy is just
the support you need to speak with your most influential
client,
your boss, spouse or friend
to gain support this month. Take
advantage of the power and authority in the Northeast quadrant this month by
spending more time in this area if possible. No remedy is
needed for this great
monthly energy. Keep what is specific to your
building here for your permanent energy and the 2007
visiting energy in this area!
In the East place 50 lbs. of Metal in the
East during this
monthly energy in addition to what ever your buildings metal requirement may be, and then avoid the use of fire
in this area to maintain
health and wealth.
Use this energy this month to "let go" of any activity,
relationship, or possession that no longer serves you. This will
have a
bigger impact on you if this is your bedroom, or entrance to the building.
Use this separation energy to move into the direction you have always been
dreaming.
It will support you in letting go of the old. Holding onto energy that brings
you little joy limits your
spiritual growth.
In the Southeast the
energy for the month and the year magnifies what it is
with. If
this is a bedroom or front door, increase the permanent energy
remedy
already required for the Southeast specific to your building.
This energy is also great for wealth and fame, so you may
receive a promotion or recognition this period, especially
if this is
an entrance to your home, or an important area
where you spend lots of time.
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I
want to thank you for your article on "Clearing Clutter"
from your life 
